Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Spring Cleaning vs. Hoarding


Spring cleaning is here time to reorganize and reduce what has been piling up over the last year. Or at least that is how the plan always start out. I know that I am not a 'dirty' hoarder like the shows on TLC or A&E but man, why is it so hard for me to let go of somethings? I try to justify each little item that I hold on to and that is exactly what I see on these shows. It would be taking it a bit far to say that I need a psychologist to hold my hand to make the decisions to let things go, but it is something that I struggle with. This year I  have developed a system as a plan of attack. My thoughts are that by giving myself some guidelines instead of just randomly sorting through things may give me a better hope for this years stuff. The old saying goes, "you'll leave this world with what you came in with...Nothing!" and that is what I had in mind in the developed my 5 rules which I am hoping will make this spring cleaning a success this time around. I know it won't be easy but I am up for the challenge!

Rule #1 - When in Doubt throw it OUT!! (or recycle)
  • No second guessing...time to be strong and go with your gut. 
Rule #2 - Just because something is "still good" doesn't mean "it's a keeper" 
  • This one is going to be hard  to follow! I will need to bring in reinforcements to enforce this rule!  
Rule # 3 - Doubles maybe but Triple of something means it's time to donate. 
  • Exception for dress clothes,  and every girl need more than one black dress.  
Rule #4  - Share it, if I absolutely cannot let it go
  •  (clothing, shoes, or kitchen items specifically) let a sister or friend that is not know to destroy or never return borrow it for a season, maybe seeing them with it will inspire the use of  it more often or the ability to finally let it go.
Rule #5 - Don't be a sentimental sap if you're not going to scrap. 
  • OK, if it's not going to make its way into my scrapbook or memory boxes time to say good bye. This will be the hardest of them all!! 

Monday, April 19, 2010

It's our Anniversary....


This weekend Eddie and I celebrated our 1st Anniversary married! This was so special although we have been together for 6 years this summer it is our first official one to celebrate. As the day went by we found ourselves saying, "this time last year, we were nervous, excited, or just said I do..." and as day  got further along I had the same sadness come over me that I did on our wedding day..I didn't want the day to be over or the moment to end! But what I have learned is that over the years we have more to look forward to, and there is nothing to be sad about only to be excited about. We decided to celebrate in San Francisco at Pier 39. This is something that we had yet to do as a couple so being tourist for the day sounded like something better that just dinner. Like our wedding day we couldn't have asked for better weather, it was sunny and warm with a nice breeze off the bay.We took a walk around the pier after lunch, and then it was back home for a relaxing evening in with a movie. Although it was not a limo ride, a fancy dinner or exotic trip it was all I ever needed. Eddie was so cute he even made me a homemade bouquet from our garden which was more precious and special than 12 dozen long stem roses.. This year I have grown so much and now I feel like I have grown more into the title of being a wife! There is times when it seems so overwhelming and I continue to give all my anxiety to God and place out marriage in his loving hands. I love being Mrs. Tostado and I am blessed to have a wonderful husband. Together we have started out on this amazing journey of life and I am so glad to have him as my partner. 

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Yep, I'm a blogger now!

I have always thought who blogs...well obviously a lot of people do and now I am one of them :) I really didn't know what to write about for my first post so I decided to keep it short and sweet. This years has been filled with so many new beginnings, wonderful blessing, and obstacles as well. Can't wait to start sharing more.